Miscommunications & misinterpretations are very common in modern days. With technology blooming, more ways to communicate and express yourself, it is still difficult for people to express their tones and mood. What we often say on blogs, smses, emails, etc... are just words that always lead to misunderstandings. What Mr A said might not be what Ms B read.

There might be hidden meanings within the sentences that people would not notice because not everyone is good at catching hints. BUT there might be people who are so great at catching hints that they can read between the lines! Even when the person who wrote them, does not have any intention of hidding meaning in the sentences!

Nothing beats the ancient way of communication. Which is talking to people face to face. That, is the most effective way to bring the intended message across to the intended party. Of course, every things comes with pros and cons. It's never easy to say things that you're shy about, and things that you're not certain how the other will react.

examples for so are like how much you like someone or how you would wan to bring someone out to dinner.

I wonder if it's the Monday blues.
Feelin' cranky, a little depressing and rather moodless to do anything.
I've got bad vibes about this coming week.

Even after 3weeks, the accident is still coming back to haunt me. Physically and mentally! So many problems! All thanks to that woman mother driver. I so hate to bring up things that are long over but this is really really irritatingly torturous.

The mechanic really is so troublesome! He does quite a good job for the body work, that I'll give it to him. BUT! Why on earth am I getting involve with the repair work? I need to send the car to Kah Motor for tyre replacement, window tinting and I've to use my own time to clear up the shit they did to my windscreen!!! Like, what in the name of hell? So friggin' tired. But I just can't seem to fall asleep. Dozing off a little and wide awake the next minute.


Every time I wonder what is on your mind. Mostly cold, some times warm.

One thing I realise, when you like someone, just stay as friends forever. Probability of friendship lasting longer than relationship is rocketing sky high. It is like preserved cabbage to normal cabbage. Preserved cabbage (Kimchi) sour, spicy, delicious. Normal cabbage is crunchy and juicy at first, then becomes rotten very quickly, smelly, yucky and far from delicious.

Hold your breath for as long as you can.
When you feel like taking a breath,
hold on for few more seconds or so.

notice how uncomfortable it feels?

It is the same as when you hold on to something for a long time, always worrying, always looking back, always not letting go.
There is only this much that we as human beings can do, accept and adapt. Only being able to tap at most 5% of our brain, we must learn to deal with what ever we have.

"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand." - Randy Pausch

I feel that the clenching fist method is not as effective as holding your breath.

This is really really freaky!!

My aunt witness the last moments of her mother. Being alone beside her, she asked Jesus to protect her mother and give her courage. She told us how the her mom breathe her last breath and how she desperately seek for help and how the nurse close her mother's eyes. My aunt is brave.


Is it really important in which religion your faith lies?
Very sensitive issue. Thats why I always remind myself that instead of wondering if there is god, heaven or hell, think of what I can do to help as many people in need as possible. I can't always help them but I did when ever and what ever I could. I make mistakes every now and then too. If all the good deeds, after I die, could not erase of the mistakes I commited, then so be it. It is alright because I did my best. Might not be the most I could've done but I did my best.

Ng mama said something today which I find lots of people have forgotten or maybe blinded in a sense. She quoted, "相信什么都不要紧，最重要是要相信自己。"

I feel that faith, is pretty much like respect. You don't demand respect, you earn respect. The most fundamental step to do before you earn people's respect is to respect yourself. Same goes to faith. You need to have faith in yourself before you can accept and have faith in others.
Believing in a religion is secondary. Beliving in yourself is primary.

yesterday was a really crazy day.
that latio is driving me nuts!
morning, I woke up and wash up, made my way to the lunch.
(waste of time!)
afternoon, got home and send mom to sentosa for meeting.
evening, went for dinner with family
night, aunt's mother's wake.
midnight, pick up Jeremy, fetch Aiden and Thomas home.

Thankew you Aiden Thomas for helping me buy dfs alcohol!
haha. 2 hard liquor & 2 beers.
wonderful. marvelous. fantastic. magnificent. lovely.
sweeeeet.

A passionate kiss ruptured a young woman's eardrum in southern China, state media reported Monday, in what has been dubbed the "kiss of deaf". The 20-something girl from Zhuhai city in

Guangdong province was treated by hospital doctors after completely losing the hearing in her left ear, the China Daily reported, citing the Guangzhou Daily.

"The kiss reduced the pressure in the mouth, pulled the eardrum out and caused the breakdown of the ear," the treating doctor, surnamed Li, was quoted as saying, adding the woman's hearing would likely recover in about two months.

The incident prompted newspapers to dispense kissing safety advice.

While kissing is normally very safe, doctors urge people to proceed with caution, the China Daily reported.

"A strong kiss may cause an imbalance in air pressure between the two inner ears and lead to a broken ear drum," said the English-language Shanghai Daily in a story headlined "Kiss of deaf."

Now thats another reason to not get into a relationship.
HAHAHA! =X

What will be the outcome of the police investigation?

Though I know that there is no point in getting all worried over something that has yet to happen, I can't help but to worry.

These few days are like the worse of the whole year!

This crazy mother person come crashing into me. I receive the letter saying I've got 2 for GPA.
One to three months of uncertainty.

I know that we are certain the traffic is green when I drove straight! Yet I know that police investigation might come out otherwise. If the two statements by the Malay and the woman is against me, then I would more or less lose the whole thing. But it is like, so unfair if that's really the case!

I hope justice would prevail at the end of the day.

I need to go out for a walk, to take my mind off this idiotic accident.
My heart aches to see ody like this...

=(

After all these tragic photos, its always nice to see something warm and cute.
The Japanese Macaque (Macaca fuscata), AKA Snow Monkey, is a terrestrial Old World Monkey species native to Japan. The Japanese Macaques at Jigokudani hotspring in Nagano have become famous for their winter visits to the spa.

Kingdom: Animalia
Phylum: Chordata
Class: Mammalia
Order: Primates
Family: Cercopithecidae
Genus: Macaca
Species: M. fuscata

Info and photo with reference from www.wikipedia.org.

Do you know what it feels like? To have this lucky chance to experience Hell on Earth? If I brake any earlier or I speed up? Either way, I'm glad I did not get Jeremy killed. This reminded me that accidents could be caused by others and not myself. What made the woman make that right turn when I had the right of way? What was she thinking? Did she not know that the light is green? Or did she not know the road is wet and slippery? Or she trust her vehicle so much?

I'm not an experienced driver. And I'm sure everyone out there, including myself, did many illegal things when they're behind the wheels on the road. But I urge all drivers and drivers, please DO NOT rush when you drive. There is a significant difference between driving with haste and driving wrecklessly. Slow down when intending to do a turn at junctions. Theres really nothing much to rush when 2 or 3 mins could mean the rest of your life.

I've learnt the hard way twice when I did not ensure my front was cleared before I made my move. Little did I expect this to actually happen. Life is really unpredictable.

HOW MANY MORE TIMES!?!

@ 1400hrs on the cross junction of Serangoon Central, YioChuKang Link & Boundary road. 3 Cars collided. Nicely done. There goes my right rear and backside.

And there I was, thinking that I drive safely, I'll not hit into anything.

2nd Time a Lady driver caused my accident.

3rd party claim! CLAIM CLAIM CLAIM!!!
Claim until you cry!!

Very very bad year.
Good thing, 2009 is coming.
Fresh year, new start.