I've given up on NYP. my preparation is not enough.


anyway, i would like to ask a question about the topic below.

Communication.

Is it really so hard for humans to communicate?

Does it really mean that when a couple have nothing to talk about means everything is coming to an end?

When problem arises in a relationship, be it friends, BGR, parents & children, does it hurt to open up and talk? you can say you're afraid that when you bring the problem up, the other party will be very much offended or more burden will be added on to him/her. have you ever thought that if you keep it to yourself, the longer you keep, the more damage will be done to you AND the party(ies) involve!

so talk! often talk about what ever that may be potential break up reasons or potential family threats or potential messy problems! dont be afraid to solve problems! problems that comes back after you all "solved" them, are not really "SOLVED"!

For COUPLES, BGRs:

PLEASE PEOPLE! PLEASE thrash things out every now and then! quarrels DO make each other know themselves better! don't always think that quarrels are bad! BUT! if you people always talk openly to one another, would there be a need for quarrels to begin with? IF you guys think that you can't do all these, please try your best not to go around and break people's heart. because alot of us boys and girls are looking for long term relationships! NOT just playing around everyday and just wan to have fun all the way.

This world does not jus revolves around YOU! so please don't try to assume or make decisions for your other half thinking that, oh! it's alright. he/she got alot of burden already so, i shall tahan as much as i can and will tell him/her when he/she feels better. IF you feel that this is thinking in the shoes of ur other half, you're dead wrong! DEAD WRONG!

so please, have a kind heart and spare us of this kind of torturous feelings. break ups or divorces are not games where u can jus shut off when u're done playing or when u're tired of playing.

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